Last night, well, yesterday afternoon on our way back from overseas' training, Caleb, Little Caleb, and I were hit with a downpour of snow. Traffic was amazing...ly.............s--l---o----w. A drive that would normally take 10 minutes was probably about 60. We were supposed to get 3, 5 or 6 inches. We finally made it to our good friends' house to retrieve our little girly treasures. These friends were so kind to let us wait out the heavy snow by enjoying a delicious dinner with them while the little ones played and enjoyed homemade pumpkin pie. While the girls dance infront of the firelight and built a little "blanket fort" we all enjoyed hot cups of tea before the flicker, flicker, flickering of the lights turned into deep darkness. Power outage. Soon candlelight illuminated the darkness and good conversation drowned out the soothing silence. We arrived home to a warm home (thank you, God) and lights aglow. (Our dear friends were not as blessed until morning when their power came back on.) Caleb did a wonderful job getting us home safely. The roads were covered; the snow was heavy; cars had gone off the road into various embankments along the way; and, a poor tractor trailer driver got his truck caught in the tunnel of an overpass. We guessed that the clearance sign wasn't visible/completely covered in snow. Poor man. Anyway, the morning has been sunny. Our activities surrounded around weather, snowflakes and good books: The Snowy Day, Weather and Climate, and The Mitten.
It's not yet 7am. I am sitting at the computer: books for the day--check; power-tie--check; cup of coffee--check; knock-knock jokes--che...what? The girls are in the living room playing in their princess castle. I overhear Pita saying, "Knock, knock. Who's there?" Madge replies, "No, Peach. You just do the first part." She catches on after a try or two. The following jokes are the big hits (don't ask me why):
(wearing your GERMANY shirt for your godfather!) p p You are 6 months old today, Mr. Cal-see! What a joy you are in our lives. You make us all happy with your sweet, sweet smile, your contagious giggles--- to the point of your getting hiccups(!), and your big blue eyes make us all melt. We love you, sweet boy. Thank you for being the little brother that you are to your big sisters. They cannot get enough of you. Last night as I was bouncing Pita to sleep she started asking, "I hold baby?" Even as tired as she was, she still wanted you in her arms. Our precious time with you on the couch was super last night: just you and I and Dad. You kept gazing back at Dad in between snuggling with Mommy. We love you. Keep growing closer each day to Jesus and stay right by Blessed Mama, and you will be set for a good life. Happy 6 months, sweets! (We will be celebrating your 1/2 birthday tonight with a little party and a BIG, sweet, chocolate chip cookie your sisters are going to help me make AND decorate later this afternoon.) We will be dancing to your song tonight.
Yesterday our art lesson was simple circles and blended colors, thanks to some tips from Mr. Kandinsky and Russian abstract art. He put an artist with color and a hand with the piano; once combined, both create beautiful masterpieces.
Last week we began Portuguese classes at a nearby national language institute. Both Mares and I have been using the same language tutor, which has been nice to ensure consistency in our learning and pronunciation. So far it has been going well. I really enjoy it but have also been feeling the mental strain of learning a new language. 40 hours a week of Portuguese is, well, intense. It's cute that every day Madge is asking us how to say one thing or another in Portuguese.
I think this is such a neat map. The Economist overlays countries with the GDP of each of the states in the U.S. For example, Taiwan's GDP is the size of Michigan's, and Australia's GDP is the size of New York's. This provides some interesting perspective for taking stock of the United States in the world.
Last night, Madge, we were saying the Rosary, and you walked into the kitchen where I was packing Dad's lunch for the next day, when you asked, "Mom, can I sit on your lap, like Jesus sat on Blessed Mama's? I want to be a baby forever." I later told you that if I had to repeat my favorite things of the day, that would have been a big one. You made Mom's day at night. I love you, sweet girl. Grandma Mimi has sent us beautiful images of Our Lady with Baby Jesus, some of my favorite paintings of Mom and Baby. They are my reminders of how real life was, and the precious moments were between them, as St. Joseph guided and protected his two Treasures.
Little Caleb, You are Mr. Happy: My Joy, and oh, So MUCH more!
As I was getting a little workout in the other night, I was listening to your song--the song we played lots and lots and sang when your little heart beat inside me-- and just appreciating your life again, and again, and again.I did know that everything would work out, and I, each day, promise you that I will give you SO much, although you have given me more than I could have ever imagined. You have given us a beautiful world. Our atmosphere is joy with you in it.
We love you, you threesome! You have the best time playing together. Today, Caleb was your little baby, Madge, and Pita had her little dolly as her "baby"-- imaginary play you love all THE t-i-m-e.
I love you, three. Keep playing. Keep enjoying life. Always love one another. You are each other's best friends.
In St. Louis, we were able to visit with Mary's parents (who flew in from Seattle), and with other family members and close friends. We enjoyed catching up with so many people. Going back to the church where we were married and to the restaurant where we had our rehearsal dinner were particularly memorable moments. It was the first time for everyone to meet Baby Caleb.
It felt like we were making a documentary entitled "24 hours in Chicago." That was literally the case. We arrived noon one day and left at noon the next. We went to visit with my brother, Micah. We had a great time with him. In that short period of time, we had a taco lunch at his apartment, traveled to Navy Pier and visited the Chicago Children's Museum, marveled at the Lincoln Park Zoo evening Christmas lights (joined at this time by Micah's delightful fiance Suzanne), had a Brazilian pizza dinner with Micah, Suzanne, and Suzanne's sister (followed by some Wiientertainment), and went out to breakfast the next day at one of Micah's and Suzanne's favorite breakfast haunts.
1. Only for today, I will seek to live the livelong day positively without wishing to solve the problems of my life all at once. 2. Only for today, I will take the greatest care of my appearance: I will dress modestly; I will not raise my voice; I will be courteous in my behavior; I will not criticize anyone; I will not claim to improve or to discipline anyone except myself. 3. Only for today, I will be happy in the certainty that I was created to be happy, not only in the other world but also in this one. 4. Only for today, I will adapt to circumstances, without requiring all circumstances to be adapted to my own wishes. 5. Only for today, I will devote ten minutes of my time to some good reading, remembering that just as food is necessary to the life of the body, so good reading is necessary to the life of the soul. 6. Only for today, I will do one good deed and not tell anyone about it. 7. Only for today, I will do at least one thing I do not like doing; and it my feelings are hurt, I will make sure no one notices. 8. Only for today, I will make a plan for myself: I may not follow it to the letter, but I will make it. And I will be on guard against two evils: hastiness and indecision. 9. Only for today, I will firmly believe, despite appearances, that the good Providence of God cares for me as no one else who exists in this world. 10. Only for today, I will have no fears. In particular, I will not be afraid to enjoy what is beautiful and to believe in goodness. Indeed, for twelve hours I can certainly do what might cause me consternation were I to believe I had to do it all my life. Bl. Pope John XXIII
"It is a poverty that a child must die so that you may live as you wish."~Mother Teresa
Mend a quarrel. Search out a forgotten friend. Dismiss a suspicion with trust. Write a letter to someone who misses you. Encourage a youth who has lost faith. Keep a promise. Forget an old grudge. Examine your demands on others and vow to reduce them. Fight for a principle. Express your gratitude. Overcome an old fear. Take two minutes to appreciate the beauty of nature. Tell someone who love him. Tell him again. And again. And again.
Family
Marriage is an act of will that signifies and involves a mutual gift, which unites the spouses and binds them to their eventual souls, with whom they make up a sole family - a domestic church. ~Pope John Paul II
Faith
Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Mt.18:3
Time
God waits for us every day in all the immense panorama of work. Understand this well: there is something holy, something divine, hidden in the most ordinary situations, it is up to each one of you to discover it... Either we learn to find our Lord in ordinary everyday life, or else we shall never find him. (Conversations with Msgr. Escriva de Balaguer, No. 114)
Education
Education without values, as useful as it is, seems rather to make man a more clever devil. C.S. Lewis
Relaxation
Take rest; a field that has rested gives a bountiful crop. Ovid
We Pray For
all children
an increase in respect for the dignity of every human person
all that we have received
an increase in faith, humility, and love
the souls of all the departed, those in our families, among our friends
fathers throughout the world
Gram Dolan's soul, especially on her death anniversary: May 15
Gram Mahler's soul on her death anniversary: June 26
the unemployed and homeless
an openness to life and its protection at every moment of its existence
dating, engaged, married couples
mothers and fathers around the world
those suffering physical, spiritual, and emotional anguish
troubled relationships
women enduring difficult pregnancies
women and men lured by the lies of abortion
all adoptive and foster parents and children
abandonment to Divine Providence
for increased compassion and mercy on others and that they in turn would have compassion for and mercy on us
for the conversion of all of us most in need of God's mercy and love
"Love expands and breathes in an atmosphere of free giving. We must be able to waste time for another person. We will gain great benefits from that 'waste': it is one of the realities signified by the Gospel words 'He who loses his life for my sake will find it.' " (Mt. 10:39) (Taken from Time for God, p.30)
Prayer Books
The Monk Who Grew in Prayer
Favorite Authors
A Song of Francis (De Paola) My Mother is So Smart (De Paola) Strega Nona Takes a Vacation (De Paola) Strega Nona Meets her Match (De Paola) The Art Lesson (De Paola) The Night of Las Posadas (De Paola) Marianna May and Nursery (De Paola) The Legend of the Poinsettia (DePaola) One Morning in Maine (McCloskey) Make Way for Ducklings (McCloskey) Lentil (McCloskey) Blueberries for Sal (McCloskey) Time of Wonder (McCloskey)
Maddy's Favorite Books
One Morning in Maine The Night of Las Posadas BlueBerries for Sal The Legend of the Poinsettia (DePaola)
Pita's Favorite Books
How Does a Dinosaur Say Goodnight? The Night of Las Posadas The Legend of the Pointsettia Good Night, Moon
ABeCedarios Alphabet Mystery (*A Madgey Favorite*) A Was Once an Apple Pie Curious George Learns the Alphabet Alphabet Under Construction Do Your ABCs Little Brown Bear Elfabet A is for Annabelle Puddle's ABC John Burmingham's ABC Eating the Alphabet: Fruits and Vegetables from A to Z Alphabet Adventure (*A Madgey Favorite*) D is for Drums A Apple Pie ABC: A Child's Alphabet Book Discovering Nature's Alphabet P is for Princess Alphabet Rescue So Many Bunnies
Music Book Basket
Lentil The Song of Francis
Going to School Book Basket
Chrysanthemum
Camping/Outdoors Book Basket
Sally Goes to the Mountain Lucille Camps In Kipper's Monster Mr. Bear's Picnic Blueberries for Sal Maisy Goes Camping Sleep Out In the Small, Small Pond
Take care not to meddle in things which do not concern you, nor even allow them to pass through your mind; for perhaps you will not then be able to fulfill your own task.-- St. John of the Cross
St. Therese of Lisieux
Oh, how good a thing and how peaceable it is to be silent of others, nor to believe all that is said, nor easily to report what one has heard!- St. Therese